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Life Realities: 7 Beginner Saving Tips for Retirement

This informative post providing several beginner saving tips for retirement was contributed to Leisure Freak by writer Roni Davis

If we didn’t have many financial responsibilities on our shoulders, we would start saving every penny we could right from our first paycheck. However, having the discipline to put your finances in check in your younger years is not always possible. When they are just striking out on their own, many people are unaware and just trying to find their place in this fast-changing world. 

It is natural to want to be better and find greener pastures – so don’t panic! Even if you’re already in your golden years and searching for a good retirement community to spend the rest of your days, you can still kick off your plan to improve your finances for the better before that time comes. Let’s discuss how to do it:

Life Realities: 7 Beginner Saving Tips for Retirement

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1 – Know Your Benefits

No one is a master at everything. Before settling on a plan, speak to your employer to see what, if any, benefits you receive. Some employers don’t have pension plans for their employees. Knowing this beforehand will help you understand the benefits you will get and if you need to change workplaces to better companies that look into their employees’ future. You might also be the key to your company considering making plans towards this if it doesn’t have plans for this. 

2 – Set Goals

Besides speaking with your employer, you should also talk to a financial advisor who can help you set goals to make your money work for you. As soon as you get all the information you need, devise a realistic plan to start saving your money. The most significant parts of this plan are how to start, where to save, your saving rate, investment ideas to boost your savings, and the deposit days. Make a solid plan to follow through and build up the required discipline. 

3 – Review Your Investments

There are two groups here; those who already have investments and those who don’t. If you already have investments in place, this is the time to re-evaluate them and see if they’re making the returns you had aspired to. If they’re bringing in more losses than profits, then it’s time to re-strategize and choose to either drop them or find ways to make them work. 

The investments could be right at times, but they could not be working because you don’t give them much-deserved time. Balance it all out and decide if you need to keep them or drop them. Alternatively, have you considered passive income? These will save you time. Weigh your options and conclude. 

If you haven’t started an investment plan yet, consult your financial advisor to guide you through it, preferably long-term ideas that will linger on even after retirement. These will undoubtedly boost your savings by a substantial margin.

4 – Automate Your Savings

If you look closely, this has been a lifesaver for many. Most people do this by setting a fixed amount of money taken off their paycheck before receiving it. Many people out there have a hard time saving their money, but with such systems in place, it makes it easier for them. Automating your savings saves your time and helps you plan accordingly for the remaining balance without wasting it. 

5 – Make Adjustments to Your Lifestyle

We all agree that unnecessary habits end up draining our bank accounts for nothing. It could be your drinking habits, traveling, buying expensive clothes, name them! It’s not easy to cut down on some of these, especially if they’re peer-influenced or if they have been part of your lifestyle for a long time. 

There’s always a starting point, and these are some of the challenging adjustments you will have to make. You can take the extra cash into an emergency fund to save you during the rainy days and to clear your debts, if any. This is not to say that you can’t spoil yourself once in a while, but this time around, do it with a plan. 

6 – Add To Your Working Hours

While you’re still energetic enough, it’s not a bad idea to put in the work to boost your income. Get that extra job if you need to, or consider extending your working time beyond the recommended retirement age, even if it means getting a part-time job. With this, you’ll comfortably meet your expenses as you save up. 

7 – Delay Your Social Security Benefits

In the financial world, you use all the tactics available to keep your finances aligned as long as you do it the legal way. A common mistake made by many is taking their social security too early. Delaying your retirement could make a significant difference to your more income and boost your survivor benefits for your beneficiary. 

 

Start making plans for your retirement life as early as now to avoid regrets. If you make your plans early, you will look forward to your retirement life without fear. Don’t also forget to be alert on the changing market trends to readjust accordingly to secure your retirement fund safely. 

Thanks Roni for contributing this article to Leisure Freak detailing some beginner saving tips for retirement.  The sooner we start, the sooner we develop the personal finance discipline and habits while leveraging time to build a better future for ourselves. 
V Baxter is now Roni Davis-Leisure Freak Contributed PostAbout the Author

Roni Davis is a writer, blogger, and legal assistant operating out of the greater Philadelphia area.

4 Retirement Financial “Whats” To Answer Before and During Retirement

Now 12 years into my early retirement, I continually learn more about successfully funding and living my desired retirement lifestyle. One of the lessons learned is answering a few retirement financial “whats” questions. There’s a lot of both having trust in established processes and winging it when it comes to retiring. Getting most of it right before retirement is essential. But so is continuing to get it right by reevaluating the plan during retirement. This just happens to be my time of year to do just that. 

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Answering Retirement Financial “Whats” Questions

I have a simple annual evaluation where I divide my plan into 4 retirement financial “whats” questions. This way I can see whether I am good for the coming year and going forward. I take this time to decide whether I can or need to make some tweaks by changing a “what” answer or two for financial and retirement lifestyle success.  

What I Need

I define what I need as the basic minimum required to fund my yearly retirement. This is everything associated with housing, utilities, health, food, taxes, insurance, transportation, and coverage for emergencies. Meeting this basic “what I need” means not having to worry about hardship, and that’s a good thing.

This retirement financial “whats” is a peek into the moment. As we have all recently experienced, the price for things yesterday is not the price today. My answer to this question 12 years ago is vastly different than it is today. When deciding to retire, we have to know our cost of living number and make inflationary estimates. I used the Firecalc retirement calculator and plugged in different spending models to gauge my retirement funding success odds. I still use it in my annual evaluations as numbers constantly change, including my dwindling time left on the planet.    

What I Have

After receiving payments from a portfolio over 12 years and riding the investment markets, what I have has also changed over time. Including a shrinking time frame before receiving my Social Security and going on Medicare. 

Like most people, I focused on hitting “the number” before retiring. This again is nothing but a peek into the moment with some projections. As the future reality is revealed, it requires annual reevaluation. 

What I have has changed much over my years of retirement. The things I look for: 

  • Is it/will it keep up with my other retirement financial “whats”? 
  • Are there risks I need to address? 
  • Is it time to rebalance assets? 
  • Am I taking too much or too little from the portfolio for spending or efficient tax management?
  • Have my other “whats” answers changed over time requiring a change here too?

What I Want

This is the retirement financial “whats” area where I play. It’s the place that makes life an adventure and fun. Much of it has a cost association that needs factored in. I’ve found it has changed drastically over the years of retirement as I’ve changed. My travel, entertainment, hobbies, interests and passions have evolved over time, accomplishments, and my aging. 

When I first retired, I was willing to do anything to ditch the rat race. Although a scorched earth lifestyle wasn’t required, I was up to it. I admit that after years of frugal living to become a good saver to retire early, I was a lousy retirement spender. That is something I’ve had to constantly work on. 

Now 12 years into retirement, I’m starting to feel my aging and mortality. There are some now-or-never “what I want” items entering into my lifestyle. We certainly don’t want to have unnecessary regrets about things done or not done. Going through the retirement financial “whats” exercise lets us know whether we reasonably can or should indulge in any unfulfilled wants before we can’t. 

What I Don’t Know or Won’t Know For A While

Before retiring there are a lot of assumptions to make. From cost of living to what our preferred retirement lifestyle will be. We only have what we know at the time. But there needs to be a little fortune telling added to the plan. 

Financially there has to be a healthy reliance on historical statistics, something a good retirement calculator will provide. But we also need an honest self evaluation of our health and longevity. We can weigh our lifestyle choices,current health, and family longevity history to understand a possible future. 

I admit that my wife and I have experienced some health issues that in no way came into our pre-retirement planning. Now known, it is placed into future planning.  It’s a best guess to how many productive trips around the sun we have left. 

Not only do we need to understand how long we will live to plan for a portfolio that is around as long as we are, but how long we will be able to do the things we want to do. All of which have both financial and lifestyle considerations. 

 

There’s a lot to figure out when deciding it’s time to retire and continue to evaluate throughout the years in retirement.

It goes beyond just the big picture portfolio numbers. There’s how to structure assets for income and investment allocation within our risk tolerance. On top of that there’s the non-financial aspects regarding our preferred retirement lifestyle that will fit within our budget. As time goes on in retirement, we should expect that our desired lifestyle will be challenged and change as we age. Making sure we get our “whats” answers aligned as close as possible ensures a happy and successful retirement. 

My Shameless Anti-Economy Sins of FIRE That Can Benefit Anyone

To be clear, for what I’m about to confess, I remain fully unrepentant. I understand that I’m considered deplorable in the eyes of some government, economic, business, and corporate authorities. I shamelessly stand by my anti-economy sins of FIRE. Although what I confess may cause authoritative scorn, I share my path because I know that anyone can benefit from adopting my sinful examples. But do so knowing what you may risk taking this path of wickedness.

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The Anti-Economy Sins of FIRE Of Which I’m Guilty Of

Time to lighten things up. I find that in today’s divisive and anti-everything environment that the only way to get some people to pay attention is to join the darkside. So on that note, here are the anti-economy sins of FIRE that can benefit anyone who dares walk this same path.

My biggest anti-economic sin is practicing the dark arts of frugality with purpose.

Spend-baby-spend is the call of this consumer based world economy. My anti-economy sin goes beyond frugality, it also includes a heavy dose of purposeful spending. I only buy what I need and only from sources I like. Oh my, it’s my personal sinful dabbling into cancel-culture. All the laughable political screaming about “cancel-culture” has me deciding that I am willing to play in this sin to personally feel better about, wait for it…. MY LIFE. 

I admit there are some businesses and products I purposely refuse to spend money on or at.

Freedom baby! I don’t go around screaming who and why, nor wearing a provocative hat or T-Shirt to make a big deal about it. I just quietly stay on budget and purposely choose where my money goes. If a business, whether at point of sale, corporate or owner level acts like Jack-Holes or goes out of their way to promote Jack-Holes, they are cancelled from my budget.

My spending moto: Only do business where they act decently. I don’t want or need to hear about their perversions. Not everyone wants to know you enjoy humping active beehives.

Inflation has me cancel some product purchases until either prices come down or I change my mind on whether it represents a good value. 

Funny thing about all of this. We haven’t been left feeling for want or deprived. There are always alternatives. My money, my choice! 

Frugality with purpose adds the huge financial benefit of being able to live my life of freedom on less money. I needed less in my portfolio to fund my economically sinful early retirement lifestyle so I could ditch the rat race without first acquiring a massive portfolio. On top of that, because of my lower yearly income needed, I’m able to pay far less in taxes. 

Next on the anti-economic sin list is my refusal to work.

Oh the wicked horror of practicing this sin in a time of business complaints over the lack of people to hire. During this time of the anti-work movement and the great resignation where there’s a huge need to fill job openings, I’m passing on opportunities to chase carrots to build even more wealth. I must be some kind of economic heretic. It must be economically selfish and sinful when an able bodied and skillful person purposely refuses to work for the good of the consumer centric economy, profits, and the tax base. 

I’m committing the sin of breaking  the commandment that when the economic beast is hungry none shall escape except when “they” don’t need you anymore. It’s funny to me how other times it’s not a sin but totally cool with the economy gods to voluntarily lean out. As was the case when I retired young in 2009 among the masses of the downsized.

I’ve actually enjoyed working since I first retired 12 years ago.

I’ve been able to learn and do rewarding work that has been on my bucket list while increasing net worth at the same time. But I only take on retirement work when on my terms. Not all jobs are opportunities. Being picky is something FIRE sinfully allows to be the highest priority. It would take a very special retirement job pitch to get me back in the game. Shameful, just shameful, NOT! 

That said, my refusal to work isn’t set in stone as never. Just not now.

I sinfully use my credit card but I never pay interest.

Plastic, the easy way to buy whatever you want and need. Many do it as designed. Buy more than you can payoff each month and pay high interest for the privilege of being allowed to do so. Banks don’t provide credit cards out of kindness, but some do offer rewards to lure you to use them. It is easy to assume that they do this knowing most will slip up and spend more than they can clear. Then becoming locked into paying monthly interest on their unpaid balances. 

My sin is using the hell out of our rewards credit card and winning their game by always paying the balance off each month. For over 25 years I’ve paid no interest but have reaped cash rewards. We cash out credit rewards to cover 35% to 50% of our overall Christmas budget each year.

Not my biggest anti-economic sin but perhaps considered the worst: Promoting my sinful ways to corrupt others to join me.

I shamelessly promote my anti-economy sins of FIRE here on Leisure Freak and every chance I get. Although I never word it in this dark tainted manner. I’m just talking about the same personal finance habits that get pitched in a positive tone everywhere else but trying to appeal to those who are better motivated by having an adversarial emotion to do something that’s actually positive. 

Do any of the economic overlords really care about my promoting these sins? I doubt it. They know most people won’t pay attention and will continue on their normal consumer, employment, and debtor path that has systematically been laid out. Sadly, that is something I know they’re right about.  

Beware the sins of FIRE risks

Walking this wicked economically sinful path doesn’t come without risks. 

Those with the power to hire set the commandments. No matter how accomplished you are in your field, take time away and you may be punished. Skills will be seen as diminished. Your escape can be used against you if you ever wish to chase new opportunities in the future. 

You can never complain about low, lax, or incompetent service. There is a risk of over challenging your patience capabilities. If you sin against the economy then you must accept labor shortages and their impacts. You will have to lower expectations and still feel gratitude towards those who are obedient to the mainstream consumer economic system. 

There’s the risk that there may be times when you feel yourself being a hypocrite. Preaching the benefits of your anti-economy sins of FIRE while knowing full well that if everyone joined you the economy would crash. That would certainly destroy the benefits of your economically wicked ways. Nah, I think keeping personal finance and the freedom it provides a secret is the far greater sin.

Early Retirement Using Matrimonial Bliss Split Budgeting

I married my highschool sweetheart at the age of 18. That was a bit over 44 years ago. We quickly discovered that always being on the same financial page with someone else is tough to do. We both reached early retirement using what I call matrimonial bliss split budgeting. Our split budget didn’t start because of early retirement goals. We did it to keep the peace. But later it did provide the boost for us to reach financial independence together, but separately.

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Our Matrimonial Bliss Split Budgeting Ride

We didn’t come to matrimonial bliss split budgeting overnight. There were many years when our children were young where there was only a single income. Basically, one budget handled by two people in a partnership of aligned goals, but with different ways of thinking. Separate minds will have different mentalities on financial priority rating. I think that captures it. 

We had very tight income to outflow limitations and our shared checking account was the battlefield. There were many marital conflicts when money went to something required, like home utilities. When the other had planned on it going towards something else required, like grocery or children’s clothing. We also had to work on communication.

Balancing the daily costs of living and raising a family, let alone saving for the future, can be a marriage challenging experience. 

Once our kids started school we entered back into the dual income realm of making ends meet.

My bride was able to work part-time and bring in much needed income. We were still on a single budget, but now with a little more income to work with. That didn’t end the financial stresses of two people trying to find a middle ground on financial priorities. 

Don’t get me wrong, her Yin was needed to balance my Yang. It’s hard to relax or have fun until all work is done and bills are covered. Even when there’s likely time later to meet those needs. She on the other hand can let go knowing there’s realistic time to enjoy things and take a break from the pressure of pending needs. 

Realizing our differing mental dynamics is how our split budget was created. 

We both needed to support our overall financial goals. Like providing for our family, keeping a roof over our head, and having a meal on the table. But we also needed to have some control over our spending without infringing on each other’s different mental processes when determining financial priorities or happiness. 

In a nutshell, aside from the benefits of having a covered budget, there are things that are needed to be happy. What makes a person happy is a unique human experience. It isn’t always shared, or equally felt and enjoyed in the same way between different people when shared. If only one person of a couple is happy about things most of the time, the chances of staying a couple gets murky. Blown finances regardless of reason just adds stress to anyone’s happiness.

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We Split Our Budget Based On Two Factors, Earnings And Preferences

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I earned a higher income than my bride’s part-time and later full-time earnings. With that in mind I took on the bulk of the budget. Initially we both had tight budget demands that left just enough to fund our own 401Ks and little left for discretionary spending. As incomes increased over the years there was more wiggle room but our budget allotments were only slightly altered. 

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It isn’t like I love paying utilities, insurance, mortgage, auto and home maintenance, vacation, debt, etc. But I sure didn’t enjoy or care more about grocery or clothes shopping than my wife did.

Our split budget settled on my portion including all living expenses other than grocery, toiletries, household cleaners, her clothing, her auto gasoline, and her 401K. This way we could budget for our share. It ended the chance for surprise hits to the account balance from the other. When we could afford it, we would treat each other and the family out to dinner, movie, or other impromptu fun.

What This Did For Our Marital Financial Peace

Having the separation provided with matrimonial bliss split budgeting allowed us to have control over our earnings and spending without infringing on each other. While still working towards our common and separate goals. Whenever a spending emergency occurred beyond one’s capability to handle, we would both chip in to make it work. 

Establishing Separate Finances To Accommodate Our Separate Budgets

Bank Accounts

We had started our marriage having a single joint Checking, Savings, and Credit Card account. We kept that for my wife to use, then opened another joint account at a Credit Union which I utilized. Having the 2 joint accounts allows us to separately track and balance our budgets. While also allowing us access to either account in the event of an emergency situation. 

Credit Cards

Initially we each used separate Visa cards to track and pay for. As time went we settled on a single Rewards Visa to use for any of our spending. We still pay our respective budgetary expenses in full monthly, but we separately track our Visa use and split it out on the monthly Visa statement. The shared rewards card distributes cash every Holiday season. We use it to cover our shared Christmas holiday and gift budget. 

Retirement Savings 

Our retirement savings evolved from just the normal separate 401K withholding from our respective paychecks to my also funding both mine and my wife’s yearly Roth IRA savings. 

Early Retirement Goals And Split Budget Impact

I had a far more aggressive attitude toward early retirement than my bride did. 

She actually loved her job when I explored the possibilities of retiring young. We both took part in the initial financial planner meetings when my 10 year early retirement plan took form. Our own retirement goals were based on our unique budget and income. When I retired early at age 51, she wasn’t onboard then with her also retiring. She wasn’t menatlly or financially ready to go and had some other milestones she wanted to continue working towards. 

After I retired early we maintained the same split budget even though the earnings dynamics were now reversed. 

My monthly IRA funded retirement income was far less than her full-time salary. But I had just enough coming in to make it work. The thought was for my wife to continue a higher retirement savings rate while still trying to hit her milestones. The split budget arrangement living off of a now more limited retirement income was tight but workable. We enjoy frugal living and I was still able to cover everything. 

Having my budgetary needs being met allowed me to stretch myself to pursue opportunities of interest and passion. I see retirement as the absence of needing to work, not the absence of working. I had always planned on doing my “retire early and often” thing whenever the perfect opportunity presented itself. I’ve had some exciting and rewarding adventures with retirement gigs that checked off a lot of my “would like to learn and do” bucket list. As I was funding my retirement from my IRA, any income I earned was added back into the portfolio and even pay off our modest mortgage. That certainly relaxed my part of the split budget expenses. 

A year into my early retirement my wife saw the early retirement light.

Seeing how I was free from obligatory toil and making it all work without having to work, my wife decided it was time for her to get more serious and join me. We tweaked her savings plan and set a retirement funding strategy to cover her budget to also retire early. A couple of years later she ditched the rat race. We both have the retirement income to cover our split budgets. 

There are lots of ways to do this to keep the marital peace and financially benefit

We certainly had some marriage challenges over the decades. There were a lot of changes in us over the years from when we married at such a young age. 

There are many many things that can challenge a marriage. Finances is one of the big ones that can creep in and ruin everything. I think the most important financial success part of this matrimonial bliss split budget story is that we stayed together, sticking it out through all of what life threw at us. Struggles of all kinds, growing up together and ultimately becoming different people, and raising kids while balancing life and careers can be a relationship meat grinder over time. 

Our having love and a commitment to each other and family; having aligned lifestyle and financial goals; and managing financial stress with our budgeting decisions, played a big role in our marriage longevity and ultimately our financial independence, separately but together.

Budgeting Before You Retire and Planning for the Future

This post was contributed to Leisure Freak by fellow financial freedom content writer Karan Mahindru.

Trying to estimate what your expenses will be during retirement can be challenging. It’s difficult to plan for inflation and to predict the costs of essential expenses in the next 10, 15, 20 years, or more. However, trying to come up with a spending plan for your retirement is crucial, as the earlier you start saving for your future, the better off you’ll be.

Budgeting for retirement now, while you are still working and earning a regular income, is the right thing to do if you don’t want to run out of money during retirement. It gives you more time to plan for the future and more peace of mind.
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To help you tackle this task, here are six tips you can follow.

1. Budget for your big three expenses: housing, transportation, healthcare

Now and during retirement, your big three budget items will be housing, transportation and healthcare.

  • Housing: Do you own a home and see yourself living in it until retirement? Or will you be downsizing or renting instead? If you are a homeowner, consider the upkeep based on the size of your property. You also need to allocate the costs of making your home elderly-friendly in case you plan to age in place when the time comes. If you will be renting or living in a retirement home, you should adjust your budget accordingly.
  • Transportation: Will you be driving your own vehicle or taking public transport? Your transportation expenses depend upon where you plan to live come retirement. If you plan to travel once or twice a year, you should also factor that into your calculations.
  • Healthcare: Medical costs tend to eat up a huge chunk of a person’s retirement budget, especially if they lead a generally unhealthy life. While living well by exercising, getting enough sleep, sticking to a balanced diet and avoiding alcohol and tobacco won’t give you 100% assurance that you’ll be healthy all your life, doing so can keep lifestyle-related diseases at bay. These include obesity, hypertension, heart disease, type II diabetes and lung cancer. Therefore, aside from saving for retirement, strive to lead a healthy lifestyle today. And, to help manage your medical expenses in the future, invest in good health insurance as well.

2. Consider budgeting in yearly or five-year increments

If you’re in your early 40s right now, it could be really difficult to visualize how much you’ll be spending every month two decades from today. Therefore, in figuring out your monthly retirement budget, consider first how much you’ll be spending during your first year (or first three or five years) of retirement.

Once you determine your first retirement year expenses, it’ll get a bit easier to calculate for the succeeding years. Again, retirement financial planning is not an exact science, but you need to start somewhere reasonable.

3. Consider the phases of your retirement

Since your needs at every stage of retirement may change, consider these phases while budgeting for the future.

  • Stage 1 (Transition): The stage where you transition from working to retirement is not full-fledged retirement itself. The transition phase could see you working part of the time or providing consulting services. During this time, your expenses are likely to stay the same and you’ll still have an income stream, albeit at a reduced level.
  • Stage 2 (Early Retirement Proper): When you get to the second stage, this is the time when you’ll be focused mainly on leisure, relaxation or having fun. If you stop working altogether, you will find yourself having a lot of free time and more opportunities to spend money than you normally would. You may be indulging in hobbies, so you’ll need to budget for hobby-related expenses. You could start travelling more, too, so that could be a significant expense.
  • Stage 3 (Later Retirement): As you continue to age, your health could also deteriorate or you may find yourself slowing down. Instead of travelling, you might find yourself feeling content puttering around the kitchen or tending to your garden and pets. If you have health conditions, you need to allocate money for medical exams and prescription medicine.
  • Stage 4: This phase usually involves the last two years of life – which can get quite expensive if you become seriously ill. It’s not a pleasant stage to think about, but you need to take a pragmatic view and consider all the expenses that come with hospitalization and dying.

4. Prepare for one-time major retirement expenses

Just like your spending today, once you set your retirement budget, most of your monthly expenses would fall into the same categories, although there may be some fluctuations over the years.

The rest of your retirement spending, however, may involve major one-time costs such as:

  • Helping with your child or grandchild’s college expenses
  • Yearly or biannual travel overseas
  • Purchasing a second property
  • Funding or contributing to the expenses of elderly parents or a child’s wedding

5. Clear your debts

Remember that you can’t really focus on saving for retirement if you have a lot of outgoings and outstanding loans or debt. This includes your mortgage, personal loans and credit cards.

Therefore, by prioritising debt right now and paying it off, you can start saving for retirement earlier. Of course, the opposite is also true; the longer you put off paying your debts, the longer you will also be delaying your preparation for retirement.

6. Budget for emergencies or unexpected expenses

Just as people are advised to keep an emergency fund pre-retirement, the same advice holds true for retirement financial planning. So, aside from calculating your future monthly expenses, it’s wise to keep an emergency buffer for unexpected costs.

Sudden hospitalization or healthcare-related costs tend to be substantial, whatever stage of life you may be in. Therefore, if you can afford it, factor that in. For whatever emergency expenses may arise when you retire, try to set aside an amount equivalent to three to six months’ worth of living expenses.

Start early and plan today

As they say, no one knows what the future holds.

But you can make your retirement comfortable by planning for it as early as possible. 

So, start saving for the future now. Today.

This informative budgeting before you retire article was contributed to Leisure Freak by Karan Mahindru

  Author Bio: Karan is a keen content writer and traveller. He’s passionate about developing financial freedom, travelling the world and spreading his knowledge and expertise around accumulating wealth. Currently living in the beautiful Manly beach of Sydney, Australia. Karan loves anything and everything outdoors – going for swims, surfing, staying active and healthy and prioritising his physical and mental health and wellbeing. Overall, Karan is driven and passionate about building a better and more fulfilling life.

The Retirement Mortality Creep Made Me Do It, What A Nag

Having enjoyed nearly 12 years of early retirement freedom, I understand what got me here and what’s necessary. I’m now in my early 60s and consider myself fully experienced in retirement or at least my version of retirement. I would think by now that I could peacefully go through retirement without being constantly nagged that I’m blowing it, but nooooooo!  I’m instead constantly battling with the retirement mortality creep. A two faced and unrelenting little monster that has creeped into my thought process and is always hanging around. 

I know why it’s there. Choosing to retire early funded from a less than obese portfolio comes with the paradox. Wanting to live a full and free life taking full advantage of time left here. But also not doing anything stupid that would cause blowing through the nest egg before leaving the planet. Is it possible to both love and hate this nagging creep?  

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Trying To Find Balance With The Retirement Mortality Creep

I’ve always told myself that life’s too short to waste on doing things you don’t want to do or live a life you don’t want to live. It was a keystone motivation to ditch the corporate rat race and strive for early retirement.

That awareness of having finite time was a primary motivation to get out while young is most likely when the morality creep was introduced. It was a love fest then because it was helping me meet my financial goals. The focus was all on working to save enough to fund life’s adventures before it’s too late to enjoy them. But time and mortality is a difficult concept to mentally quantify and reconcile. 

The thought of our own mortality is one thing when you’re young, healthy, and looking at it as 30 or 40 years plus out. It’s another after you start to feel the aches and pains that a lifetime of sports, bumps, bruises, and abuse your body is coming to collect on. It starts with hints of pain specifically designed to be our daily reminder that things are a changin. There’s a Liberty Mutual TV ad of kids skipping rope into old age with the final quip “everything hurts”. It’s only funny because of how true it is. That reality is exactly what the retirement mortality creep feeds on, just when our health and mortality all comes into better focus. 

Our brain either openly or subconsciously pays attention and figures it out. 

That’s the retirement mortality creep that can throw us off plan. When we start to think and act with the view of everything within an ever compressing timeframe of health and life, or for some maybe thinking it’s a lot longer than it really is. It can cause us to impulsively change our plan or how we want to live. Part of the problem is that this little creep which was a key motivator to have a happy fully funded retirement now talks out of both sides of its mouth

My most recent temptation and failure to handle the mortality creep –

Our coming together was unplanned and sudden. Without any doubt, she gave all the signals that I could have her if I wanted her. She was curvaceous and sexy, making me feel younger the minute I was in her presence. I felt something I hadn’t felt since my youth. I knew I entered into a minefield, but the nag of the retirement mortality creep screamed at me, life is short, when will you ever have this chance again? 

It convinced me to allow things to go too far. I was smitten and willing to kick a decades-long love to the curb to make room for her in my life. Throwing it all away to start a new chapter. One that I knew wouldn’t last long. 

She was a beautiful early 70s Corvette Stingray. The car of my teenage year’s dreams and what could be a new addition to my retirement’s automotive passions. The price was right and her condition was spot on. I test drove her and after an hour of checking her every inch, pacing a circle around her, and enduring the mental anguish listening to the voice of my mortality temptor in my ear, I came as close as one could to make her mine. I agreed to buy her but then painfully backed away from the deal. Why? Because the creep abruptly changed its tune and started loudly wondering if the hit to cash reserves might be bigger than expected. 

I checked back later as I questioned my decision. Within 3 hours she had gone home to be with another, ensuring there would be no decision backslide. A month later and I’m still not sure if it was a missed opportunity or successful rescue.

I was shaken and then realized what had happened to me. 

There wasn’t time to fully prepare for this deal. I started to rationalize a one time retirement budget-busting purchase on something that made no financial sense, but one that would add some welcomed passion into my retirement hobby. All because it dropped out of nowhere without time to completely think it through. The mortality creep convinced me that I deserved to have it while I’m still able to enjoy it. Or at least my idea of it, because it’s too easy to only see the upside when in this mortality mind-mode. 

That is until the creep changed course, forgetting all about pushing to take advantage because it’s a short life and living it up. Now this nag was focusing on the considerable ancillary costs associated with this, as is with most things in life. It was warning me that even though I have the cash to get it, maybe I’m spending money I’ll need much later in life to aid an older, broken down me.

I was mentally rushed during this decision because I knew the opportunity for her and my healthy active life were both fleeting. A bad combination when not prepared to do battle with the retirement mortality creep. It made me see how this slow unconscious reaction to the realization of leveraging my limited time to the fullest vs the chance of living a lot longer needing me to throttle myself now. One thing I certainly now understand, this creep sure cramps my mojo.

Mortality awareness can unnecessarily drive us to both take and avoid risk.

I wrote recently how I have been dealing with a spending problem. The problem of good savers being lousy retirement spenders. I even pledged to do better with YOLO opportunities before it’s too late. Even with that spending issue already mentally recognized, it still subconsciously played a part in how my latest fail went down. It shows me that it isn’t easy and takes more effort. 

It’s a mindwarp of mixed messages. 

  • Don’t spend too much because you or your spouse might live to age 100 and outlive your money. 
  • Don’t be a miser and miss out on living. Time is spent and can’t be bought back. 

I have no problems living a frugal life for all the day to day and little things. I’ve never struggled or regret any of that. The problem is when I really want to take rare opportunities to live large and make a big one-time purchase that bounces off of an overall portfolio strategy. Giving voice to the other side, you might need it as an old human. 

What This Latest Go Around With The Creep Has Taught Me

I think this latest battle between living life to the fullest vs being responsible with spending at all costs is that I tend to lean toward the safest route. Sure, I want to be the adventurous fun seeking freak, but it is hard for me to jump in without first thoroughly testing the waters. 

I need to remind myself of this Tony Robbins quote: “People will do more to avoid pain than they will do to gain pleasure.”  Just a little something to throw back at the creep and counter my safer route tendencies.

It’s easy to say embrace life. But even when knowing that life and health are fleeting, responsibility and respect for unknown possibilities can cause us to flinch. I wish I knew the answer or formula to balancing the retirement mortality creep’s mixed messaging. Especially for those like myself that tend to lean towards always taking the safe and risk averse approach. I think we all have to work that out for ourselves. But I am going to start by asking myself a couple of things.

Is it following a true interest or passion?

There is value in spending our limited time pursuing our interests and passions. Doing things that make us tick, even when it might cost us a little financially. The criteria it must meet is that It’s something that will bring pleasure into life.

Will it provide a great experience and worthwhile memories without causing long-term financial damage?

In the end it’s our pleasurable memories we appreciate. They keep us going and remind us we are alive. The dream car could have certainly done that for me. The trick is doing all that we can to make sure it isn’t a nightmare scenario we’re entering into. One that spends too much money or time in areas we can’t or wish to no longer tolerate. 

Can it be considered an investment? 

Not purely financially, but personally through the experience. Taking the family on a vacation could be viewed as an investment in the relationships. One time purchases like my recent car fail, I would have invested in myself and scratched an itch that occupies space on the bucket list. It could have added some fun to my retirement hobby. The car may or may not be a financial investment. But it would never be a total loss if later sold and well worth the experience.  

Is there a practical exit strategy if it goes wrong?

I made a living as an engineer countering all possible failure scenarios. This kind of thing shouldn’t be any different. If I were to enter into a situation where it later didn’t meet retirement financial, lifestyle, and passion needs, then I need to have set those exit indicators and have a plan to fix or walk away from it. 

 

Will I ever lose out to the retirement mortality creep in the future? Probably. I am as mistake prone as anyone else and can take the wrong creep argument for or against doing something new or different. I just need to learn something from it with every encounter. 

Deciding to stretch and explore new areas to live life to fullest during our ever shortening time frame means there will always be unknowns. But you won’t know for sure until you research and try. Turning dreams into reality is always an exciting and sometimes risky move. Like deciding to retire early. Which sure has been a successful investment in life’s precious and limited time. 

My 2020 e-File Rejected! All Clues Point To Unprocessed 2019 Tax Return

Retirement doesn’t end our playing the income tax game. It’s that time again when we need to settle up with Uncle Sam. Yes, the yearly joy of filing our income tax return for the past year. Well, I tried to settle with them but shortly after sending off the return I got a 2020 e-File rejected by the IRS. They refused my return and my money. 

I’m one of those personal finance ducks who refuses to over withhold just to get a later refund. I always owe, wait to file by mail, and just live my life like the ancient pre internet days. But the pandemic strikes again, making this year different. We’re being warned it’s best to e-File because the IRS has a bit of a backlog from last year. So I decided to abide by recommendations to help them out a little and possibly myself by trusting the digital gods to process my tax return and correctly debit my bank account. But alas, not so fast buckaroo.

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Getting A 2020 e-File Rejected Isn’t a Problem For Only Those Wanting A Quicker Refund

Every year but this I saw little need to bother with e-Filing and instead mailed my return with my payment check. That’s exactly what I did last year. Things were just starting into the pandemic unknowns at the time. I calmly mailed my 2019 federal income tax return and payment check. I then saw that my tax payment check had cleared my bank a couple of weeks later and assumed all was cool. Who would cash your check and not finish the work associated to it? Silly me. It appears they gladly cashed my check but threw my return in their massive pile of what now numbers in the millions tax return backlog. 

My First Clue My 2019 Tax Return Was Never Processed

It now seems like years instead of months ago. Many of us were being sent stimulus money in the spring of 2020. I would check the get my payment website and there was no info. A little later they added to their portal a way to use 2018 AGI info and input a bank account so they could directly deposit the stimulus money. It all worked out. I thought it strange my 2019 AGI wouldn’t work on their portal since I knew they had cashed my 2019 tax payment check. So I just went about my life thinking it’s simply a delayed database issue. I was so naive. 

The Second Clue That My 2019 Tax Return Was Collecting Dust Somewhere

Fast forward to the second round of stimulus. Again, as I heard of people gladly receiving their stimulus direct deposits or debit cards in the mail by early January, I got “no info” on the IRS site and received no stimulus money. This time there wasn’t a way to add information or a bank account. Instead it was recommended to take the credit on our 2020 tax return when we file. Cool, I’ll owe a little more than $1,200 anyway so I’ll write a smaller check to settle things. 

The Final Clue: My Day Of 2020 Income Tax Reckoning Blocked By The IRS e-File Masters

So I still owe the IRS a little bit and wanted to get it over with a month earlier than usual. I also wanted to make it easier for them to send me any stimulus money for this year going forward. I would rather handle my tax withholding than have the government hold onto it until I could redeem a possible credit next year. So I e-Filed my Federal return and soon after got their e-File rejected email. Why? The 2019 AGI figure used doesn’t match their records. What gives, it’s correctly entered?

Now what?

What else do you do but search the web. There’s lots about e-File rejected tax returns as it relates to people desperate to get their refund. None about people who owe money and want to e-File. I suppose I’m an oddball. There are many reasons for the IRS to reject e-Filed taxes. Like issues with an entered social security number or birth date not matching their system data. Mine was simply last year’s tax return AGI related.

I finally found the answer to my issue on an e-File rejection code page. Their take made absolute sense. I have no other assumption than my 2019 return is still sitting in a pile somewhere. So I simply changed my 2019 AGI to $0 on my e-File application. I resubmitted my Federal return and the e-File was now accepted by the IRS. This absolutely tells me my 2019 Federal tax return is still collecting dust somewhere and if I hadn’t e-Filed my 2020 return I would most likely not receive any stimulus money this Spring. 

Worried About Being Accused Of Falsely E-Filing My 2020 Federal Taxes?

No, not at all. I agree with what the eFile.com folks say here:

“Simply a reflection on what the IRS might have stored in their system at this point in time. They might not be an actual reflection whether you did or did not file a 2019 return. The 2019 AGI is used as an identification method when e-Filing your 2020 return, thus you are identifying yourself with what the IRS system has on file at this point in time.” 

My 2020 e-File Experience Takeaways

Keep a copy of that cleared IRS 2019 Income tax check that cleared the bank April 2020 with my 2019 tax return copies

I can assume that the IRS will eventually clear their pandemic caused tax return backlog. But I won’t hold my breath. If they fail to get mine into their system they will come knocking. Usually around 3 years from the filing deadline. A time when this is all a distant memory. I will need that cancelled check as evidence they had my return and biffed it. 

Print evidence of the 2020 income tax debit to my bank account and keep it with my 2020 return copies

I will have the bank account debit info printed much like a cancelled check. Why? Because when it comes to the Government and IRS I believe in CYA. Guess what? No surprise here either, the IRS debit swiftly hit my bank account. They do like getting paid.

Maybe I’ll get stimulus sooner instead of waiting until next year to claim it as a tax credit

New stimulus will be based on either 2019 or 2020 tax return info. Since my 2019 return has not yet been processed I should get any qualified stimulus funds based on this accepted e-Filed 2020 tax return. If not, I’ll just adjust my withholding to reflect the future tax credit for non-received qualified stimulus when filing taxes next year. I’m sticking to my policy of starving the tax monster and never purposely getting a tax refund. 

Starve the Monster: My Early Retirement Income Tax Strategy

I always try to cover everything when it comes to income taxes. In what I call my previous life, I spent several years in the income tax industry with some IRS interactions. It’s always best to be on the legal side of things and cover your keister at all times when it comes to the tax monster. I use the term tax monster because it will happily over-eat without squabbling but will hunt you down and destroy you if you don’t feed it what it thinks you owe. 

If you make a habit of mailing in your tax return as I have then it’s best to be aware. Your 2019 tax return may just be sitting in a 80 foot pile of paper somewhere resulting in e-File rejected from the IRS. That may cause a delay in any 2021 stimulus money and when your 2020 income taxes will be processed. It’s also best to make sure you have all of your supporting paper records in order for a possible later visit from the tax monster. Hard to know if something will go wrong with the IRS backlog efforts. It’s always better to be safe than sorry. 

Is Early Retirement Lifestyle Inflation Ever Justified?

There might be something wrong with me. I was given the green light to spend more money in my early retirement.  So I tried to do it but failed. Lifestyle inflation is a huge risk to avoid when saving for retirement and financial independence. It robs us of potential future investment income when money is spent unnecessarily for wants beyond needs. But once we are happily rat race free and living off of our portfolio, is early retirement lifestyle inflation ever justified? 

Is Early Retirement Lifestyle Inflation Ever Justified?

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Asking The Question: Is Deliberate Early Retirement Lifestyle Inflation Ever Justified?

The reason that I ask this question is due to events that began over a year ago. I was meeting with my CFP and he asks as he always does, what have you been up to and how are things going with cash flow? 

For years I’ve got the impression that he’s perplexed about our budget. We live in an above average cost region in a desirable and fast growing town on what most here would consider a small amount of money. He knows exactly what income I’m getting and living off of in early retirement. I explained everything was going well and that is when he dropped the unexpected: 

According to their analysis, I could increase my cash flow. They recommend upping the monthly distribution amount that I receive from my IRA. 

You’re suggesting that I take more money out of my portfolio to spend? How did this happen?

He presented graphs and analysis based on my portfolio, future Social Security income, tax considerations, and their Monte Carlo calculated results to support increasing my distribution amount. 

I never thought this would happen. I retired early at age 51 with less than a million dollar portfolio. Even so, did I still save too much? Over 10 years into this sweet early retirement ride I sometimes wonder if I could have retired much younger. 

On the other side of my ponder was the effect of my static withdrawal rate for the first 9 years of early retirement. It was in the upper 4% range, nearer 5%. My withdrawal amount never fluctuated with inflation. Inflation that was primarily associated with health insurance. This must have played into the current positive cash flow situation and supports recent talk that 4% withdrawal rate is too low.

This also shows the enormous positive long-term impact of a few short but enjoyable retirement gigs. I lived off of my portfolio 72t distributions and pumped any gig earnings back into my net worth. Simply put, I paid off my $100K mortgage and added a bit to the portfolio by taking advantage of 401K opportunities. Those unexpected and unplanned moves while simply living on budget allowed my eliminated mortgage payment to counter health insurance budget increases and added an offset to some of the portfolio withdrawals for a couple of years. 

At first I hesitated and even said no thanks, but then….

I started thinking that maybe he was right and we should cut loose a little more. YOLO, that great seducer came to mind while sitting there in his office and I agreed to the recommendation. With that my monthly distribution increased $800. A monthly raise anyone would love to get. I knew it could go to good use. It was certain that our health insurance premium would jump at the end of the year as it always does and I had some new expensive medication I had to now take. There are other things that we ditched long ago in our smart frugal budget and lifestyle that we can maybe look at again. 

I began to think that because this is a deliberate increase in spending based on financial data and complex calculations, it probably shouldn’t be considered early retirement lifestyle inflation. It’s easy to rationalize. A little too easy. However, a year later things have played out differently. 

There was a problem, there wasn’t anything I wanted to spend more money on.

I had created a sustainable and enjoyable smart frugal lifestyle. It seems when given the opportunity to open up spending there wasn’t anything wanted or needed above what our budget already allowed for. When it came down to it, there was nothing I felt deprived of having. We simply do everything that we want to do. We buy what we want and need to buy. 

Here’s what I think happens. FIRE minded folks think differently than most people. The desire to wastfully own wants and expand needs significantly decreases over time when we are FIRE aware. In my case it wasn’t reversible even with there being more money available to spend. Good financial and simpler living habits die hard too.  

What ended up happening with the increased income.

The extra monthly income easily covers my added medical expenses and the rest gets diverted to my bank savings and CDs. I’ve worked it into my increased retirement cash holdings strategy. Aside from that, it’s nice knowing that if I did have an unplanned expense or if something special came up that I have the cash to handle it. 

I did splurge and bought a long-time bucket list auto several months ago. Something that caused questions about my financial standing among friends and acquaintances. That social pop blew over quickly and I am really happy that I scratched that itch.

The extra cash has allowed us to assist our children during the pandemic as their income has decreased, causing them budget challenges. 

If the portfolio takes a dump it’s comforting to know I can use saved cash and easily reduce portfolio distributions.

The Takeaway

As hard as it is to initially set and keep to a budget, when done correctly it produces positive lifelong personal finance habits.

Creating a sustainable and enjoyable retirement lifestyle is the reward, not getting more money. Which is a reason why my retirement gigs ended as they did. Everyone is different, but we have landed in a lifestyle without feeling deprived and all our needs, even wants are met. Increasing our spending would feel forced and unnecessary. 

Even when retiring early without a million dollar portfolio, having a portfolio aligned budget and lifestyle can result in still having long-term financial security. 

Early spending discipline can result in better than expected long-term portfolio performance. That and simply keeping our eyes open to rewarding opportunities of interest and passions. FIRE naysayers are wrong, retiring early to a life of austerity is not a given. We can use our youth, energy, and health to our advantage in early retirement. 

The fear that the retirement calculator results could be wrong was unfounded. I constantly ran my numbers before ditching the rat race and they ended up right. At least to this point over a decade into this early retirement adventure. I am going to feel good about trusting the numbers my CFP is seeing now too.

 

Is early retirement lifestyle inflation ever justified? It certainly can be allowed from a numbers perspective if the portfolio has performed well enough and we age beyond any long-term tipping point. The issue is whether we are happy with our lifestyle and whether spending more will make any difference, either good or bad. With all the hellish news we hear today, hopefully this personal revelation brings a little thought provoking sunshine to anyone’s doubts when considering their retirement. 

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Can A Frugal Retirement Be Enjoyable? Mine is

My choosing a frugal retirement is an enjoyable personal success. When you can’t ever see earning a 6 figure salary or having a million dollar portfolio you have to create a unique retirement solution. I chose to strategically make smart balanced adjustments and decrease our lifestyle cost which means less is needed in the bank to retire. Getting our lifestyle cost aligned with our portfolio amount where the retirement calculator said the numbers work became the goal. I’ve seen some frugal retirement naysayers, mostly from people who have never tried it. Now as I’ve already cleared a decade of early retirement I can say that my flavor of a frugal retirement lifestyle has exceeded expectations. 

Can A Frugal Retirement Be Enjoyable? Mine is

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Choosing A Frugal Retirement, What’s Not To Enjoy?

Why I looked for a workable employment liberation answer –

Retirement is constrained by how much money we have. All the talk about being able to replace 80% of our pre-retirement salary for a comfortable retirement is a tall task and I think I’ve proven that notion wrong. For many households including ours, it’s really tough to save a million dollars or more for retirement. With all I had experienced in my tech career that required a relocation, endless cycles of layoffs, reorganizations, etc., my having to survive working into my 60s or later was something I couldn’t stomach as acceptable or even viable. In 1998 at age 40 I decided that I wanted to explore early retirement options and began my 10 year early retirement plan. 

We didn’t let the million dollar portfolio barrier deter us from early retirement. That’s when frugality became the solution. But it had to be done right or not at all. If it was a joyless existence of austerity it wouldn’t be worth it. While some choose extreme frugal practices, ours was uniquely measured to fit us. 

The Fun Stuff – 

I want to clear the air up front and get past notions of a frugal retirement as sitting in a small apartment or RV with a TV as the only entertainment. While some may call that heaven, that isn’t at all close to our retirement lifestyle. We stayed in our 2 story home close to our daughter’s families and have what we call a frugal budget. It not only covers all of our living expenses, but includes our hobbies, entertainment, and much more.

Travel- 

We travel as much as we want to. Other than a Hawaiian vacation bought through Costco Travel a couple of years ago, we usually prefer budget friendly road trips. We have our go-to destinations of the Black Hills SD and southern California where we hunt for and lock-in great lodging deals ahead of time. We also travel yearly to places where we enjoy visiting and staying with extended family. All on a yearly travel budget of $3,500. If we over do something and go over one season we adjust down the next, make other budgeted adjustments, or accept any slight overrun for the year.  

Holidays-

We enjoy making the holidays merry just like anyone else. With grandkids there’s always something going on from Halloween to New Years. We have a $1,500 holiday budget that covers family outings, celebrations, and gifts. 

Dining Out-

We dine out on occasion but we aren’t hooked on going out to eat a lot. In fact, by the time we return from a vacation we get pretty tired of restaurant dining. We do dine out for special occasions and typically try to use a promotional discount or coupon of some kind. I happily admit to useing our advancing age to our advantage and get senior discounts when available. Dining out comes out of my misc budget which also covers other random household, automotive, unplanned but expected non-fixed monthly spending. 

Activities-

When you look you find all kinds of free activities and events. The only cost is getting there and what you spend once you are there. Food trucks and beer vendors are always around. We go with a $40 cash budget in mind for events and it comes out of my misc budget. It’s always easy to stick to. We typically go to events to enjoy the venue, not load up on expensive food or drink. We have a habit of going with a beverage in hand to start things off and have already eaten a meal. I do love a good draft beer and that is always a budget challenger while attending events. 

Coffee Shop-

Every frugal person goes on about ditching the lattes. I do enjoy a good cup of drip coffee or an Americano and frequent an independent coffee shop in my town. It also serves as my daily social outlet. I have gotten to know many people in my town there and have been able to greatly expand my social circle beyond what had only included work peers before retirement. I have a $40 a week petty cash, aka pocket money allowance in the budget that covers this and everything else that’s a small random purchase during the week. 

Movies and TV Entertainment-

We cut the cord years ago and not sending that bill in every month still puts a grin on my face. I installed an attic type antena and used the existing coax cables running through the house to hook up our TVs on every floor that had cable before. Between over the air and online streaming with a Roku or Chromecast dongle we get all the programming we want. For movies we checkout free DVDs from our local library or use a standard $13 a month Netflix.  

Hobbies-

We do have hobbies in retirement. My biggest is an automotive hobby. Although that can be expensive if buying cars, my oldie has been with me since 1993. The hobby cost comes from the events I attend. Like other events, I set a cash budget. Any out of town events are aligned with planned vacations. Car maintenance comes out of my monthly misc budget. I did have a 21 year old Corvette that I gave up this year for a fun but rationally more practical all-season any weather or road condition convertible Wrangler. The difference between the two in the purchase amount was outside our 2020 budget and will be listed as a one time charge off. I had just survived a serious health scare and was ready for a change. It was also about a 45 year bucket list item I wanted to scratch off and it only happened because we had the extra funds to do it. Our frugal retirement allows for the occasional splurge.

Cell Service-

I see people spending way too much for their cell plans. I still use an old $100 a year pay as you go flip phone plan that I never use up all my prepaid account balance. One that brings a laugh from people around me every time I take a call. My wife uses an iPhone on a $10 low cost cell and data plan. We can live frugally and still stay connected to the world as much as we want to. 

Day to Day Lifestyle Cost and Spending-

What we did was push against our frugality threshold. When we went too far we backed off. The idea was to cut costs that didn’t have real happiness values and do so without feeling deprived. As opportunities to improve our frugality came we took them. There are many frugal living decisions we can make. There are just as many frugal living tips to put into practice. We embrace purposeful spending. Seldom is anything bought on whim without thinking first about whether we really need it, getting it will add something positive to our lifestyle, or if we decide to get it, getting it for a better price. We also won’t just settle for cheap. A needed quality product that may cost a little more but will last and do what it is supposed to do is what we target. 

Our 2020 Retirement Budget Numbers

We do not live in a low cost area of the US and live in the house we raised our 3 kids in. The last report I found of the median household income where I live is $121,000 and it’s most likely higher than that today. As almost everywhere else, based on the cars I see in the driveways and the cost of some of the housing around here, most people are living paycheck to paycheck. Here’s a peek at our retirement lifestyle budget figures for 2020. It’s based on the previous year and adjusted when necessary like once we see actual property tax assessments, insurance increases, etc. This should give an idea of what our definition of a frugal retirement that’s sustainable, enjoyable, and that works for us: 

  • Utilities: Water/Sewer/Power/Natural Gas/DSL/Cell/Netflix – $3,500
  • Insurance: HomeOwners/Umbrella/Autos – $4,400
  • Home Property Tax – $2,800
  • Healthcare Insurance: Medical/Dental –  $15,990
  • Out of Pocket Healthcare/Predeductible) – $4,000 max
  • Petty/Pocket Cash – $1,960
  • Misc: Repairs/Maintenance/Dining/Purchases/Gas/etc. – $9,000
  • Grocery/Toiletries/Cleaning Supplies/etc.- $10,400
  • Travel – $3,500
  • Holidays/Christmas – $1,500
  • Federal/State Income Taxes – $3,500

Total yearly budget $60,550

Will we be on budget for 2020? 

We will come in under budget this year. We are not traveling during the pandemic nor having family celebrations as normal. Events have all been a no go. Some things at the grocery store cost more but other expenses have all but disappeared. Just because we have a budget doesn’t mean we have to push against it. Hoping 2021 is a little closer to normal.

Are you thinking that our retirement budget isn’t very frugal?

There are plenty of frugal living stories of those living an enjoyable life spending less than we do. I love reading about what other people do and get great ideas but I don’t compete in frugality games. Here’s why I feel confident about considering our retirement lifestyle as frugal.

  • Our retirement lifestyle budget is just under 50% of our town’s median household income. We get to live here and enjoy all that it offers at a discounted price.
  • That 2020 budget figure comes in at 42% of our actual, not inflation adjusted 2009 household joint tax return AGI. That AGI was eleven years ago when I retired. Sure beats that 80% pre-retirement salary recommendation some experts throw around. 
  • Our yearly budget is the equivalent of us both earning $15 an hour at a full time job. An amount recommended as a dignified minimum wage.
  • When looking at the budget breakdown, our living expenses are fairly low at nearly $40K if it weren’t for ridiculously high healthcare costs. Health insurance and its associated out of pocket represents a full third of the total budget. In 3 years we will see a big part of that cost decrease when we are Medicare eligible. That along with my eventual Social Security that will also reduce our IRA withdrawals, lowering our taxable income for less income taxes.

Frugality Is Personal, Make Sure You Can Enjoy Yourself

We have been more frugal in the past when we needed to be and we still make adjustments to stay in our frugal living sweet spot. Our frugality isn’t defined by anyone else’s definition of frugal living. It’s based on what makes sense to us while still meeting our financial sustainability goals. All of this became the model for our frugal retirement lifestyle. What’s not to enjoy about that? 

I won’t nor can tell anyone what they should cut to live a sustainable and enjoyable frugal lifestyle. That has to be figured out by each individual and their unique circumstances. Everyone’s frugality threshold is different. Living a life feeling deprived is not an enjoyable way to live if you can do something about it. 

I want to give a shout out and a thanks to Feedspot’s top 10 frugal retirement sites that rated Leisure Freak at number five for 2020. Check out their list if you want to find sites that can provide ideas for successfully living your own frugal retirement lifestyle. 

Common Anti-FIRE Mindset Trap: It’s Harder Now Than Eras Before

Do I owe my early retirement success to the era I was in? This might be a touchy subject. There are certainly unprecedented events that we’re dealing with today that are very challenging. But I’m going there anyway. Putting the pandemic aside, if you still have your career intact is it harder now than it was in earlier decades to reach FIRE? Does believing that it’s harder now become an anti-FIRE mindset trap holding people back? I bring this up because of a recent reader’s comment to one of my FIRE journey posts stating that my lifestyle and path to FIRE is outdated, the result of luck and the era I was handed. 

I do get where they are coming from. There were many times when I felt the same way when I was younger and financially struggling to get ahead. I saw earlier generations and believed they caught all the breaks. Better benefits, higher pay scales in newly tiered pay systems, etc. It’s natural to go negative when things are difficult. There are certainly a lot of outside influences and changing dynamics that can hold us back. When experiencing setbacks, immediately faulting ourselves for our own decisions and actions isn’t the first diagnosis we enjoy coming to. When it comes to personal finance FIRE goals, the issue with having a then vs. now era thinking is it’s always an apples to oranges comparison. It offers no help, only excuses that won’t improve our situation.

Although things are different over time and eras, what remains common is the financial discipline needed to reach FIRE. 

That said, I wanted to take a snapshot to crunch some numbers during my financial journey to early retirement to get a feel for then vs. now. Just a simple attempt to quantify some of the differences and challenges. Also pose the question: Do other’s FIRE success stories and their efforts taken to get there have any merit or should their FIRE journey during a past era get all the credit?

Common Anti-FIRE Mindset Trap: It’s Harder Now Than It Was Before

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Are Generational Era Comparisons Valid Or Just An Anti- FIRE Mindset Trap?

My oldest daughter just turned 37 and after our lovely socially distanced backyard get-together I was triggered to consider this topic. Like most people today, she and her family have financial challenges. Especially now in a world full of uncertainty during the Coronavirus pandemic. I began to think where I was on my 37th birthday. A time as a father of three where I was struggling to make ends meet, three years before I contemplated what is known as FIRE today. It was 1995 and even back then the world chose winners and losers where life was turned upside down with uncertainty. It also marks a time in my life that brought many work and financial decisions. Hardly being handed a “then” lucky era of benefits. 

Work and Career

I was near my 17th year of a telecom career at a regional Bell Operating company in 1995 at the age of 37. My employer had a 14 state footprint in the west and midwest. It took me 13 years to climb the ranks from service representative to top level technician. Reaching this technical milestone was a long-time goal from the moment I started working there. I took a lot of evening college classes, correspondence courses, and company qualification testing over the years. Finally reaching a place where I loved my job, the work, and especially its good pay scale. 

I was only a few years into my dream job when in 1995 my company decided to go through mass centralization. Instead of having organizational presence in every state, they would be centralized in 2 locations. I was in Salt Lake City UT, now my job was moving to Denver CO. Because of seniority issues and how the centralization employment matters were worked out I either had to follow my job which meant moving my family from our home where all our extended family and support system was, drop to a lower paid non-technical position if one opened up, or face lay off. At that time good paying jobs were scarce in Salt Lake City.

I was not a fan of Denver. Neither were many people impacted from non-Colorado states. Many employees decided not to follow their jobs. That low acceptance rate created promotion opportunities and I was instead offered an engineer position to relocate. We reluctantly accepted given the job uncertainty of staying in our home. I spent my 37th birthday alone like many days and months that year in our near empty Colorado house while my family stayed behind in Salt Lake City until the end of our kid’s school year. 

An era handed benefit? I would disagree. 

It was a risky and life altering decision. Would I do it again if I went back in time and know what I know now. Not a chance. However, it did work out financially as far as my early retirement goes. My younger sister who also worked at the company chose not to follow her mid-level position and instead stayed in Salt Lake City. She ended up in a clerical position and was stuck at that lower paying level for the remaining 15 years of her career. That ultimately resulted in far less for her retirement. The era was not overly kind to her to overcome her decisions. Our decisions and actions during challenging times will impact outcomes.

The era money side comparison of this decision- 

I did some 1995 to 2020 money value conversions to show if I received any better era provided benefits. 

In 1995 after a decade plus slow slog to becoming a happy technician in Salt Lake City I was making $36,000 a year. That converts to $61,205 in 2020 dollars. A great salary in Salt Lake City, not as good in higher cost of living Denver. I was given a salary increase around 10% for accepting the engineering position to $40,000 which equates to $67,663 in today’s dollars. I would have most likely only landed a mid-range non-technical lower salaried position of around $28,000 ($47,364 today) had I not followed my job. These numbers are either seen as great numbers, mediocre, or bad. It’s all subjective to where you live, how you live, and what you do for a living. It does provide a snapshot of career and financial decisions from a past era. 

Then vs Now Housing Numbers

We never considered renting in 1995 after relocating. We had spent 17 years in our first starter home located in a less desirable part of Salt Lake City. It was 980 square feet and I had finished the basement to double that living space over the years. We sold our Salt Lake City home in 1995 for $85,000 which converts to $143,784 today. We bought our nearly same sized Colorado home for $157,000 which when 2020 dollar converted is $265,578. 

I never bought our homes as investments but more a hedge against inflation.

For the first years of our home ownership the house payment ate an entire paycheck. As time goes and pay increases the house payment remains nearly the same while hopefully income increases. Rent over those years certainly did go up. However, both homes did appreciate as an investment and appraise today for more than the 2020 converted dollars calculated above. 

Era handed benefits? I not only paid more for a house, but the biggest hit came in monthly payments.

Our inflation hedged home in Salt Lake City was $321 a month or $543 in today’s dollars. Compare that to our Colorado home’s $1,180 payment which converts to $1,996 in 2020 dollars. That and other higher living costs ate a big chunk of my 10% increased salary. I was once again where my house payment took an entire paycheck.

We had an 8% FHA loan that we began in 1978 in Salt Lake City. New mortgage interest rates were even higher in 1995. We used some of our home sales money to buy down points to get the Colorado loan at 8% too. That’s where apples and oranges come in. Houses do cost more today. As mentioned, my own home is valued higher than straight dollar conversions. But payment wise things are more aligned with today’s era. 

Today’s Interest Rate Smoothes Some Era Housing Differences

My youngest daughter spent the pandemic lockdown with her daughter and 2 dogs in a 2 bedroom rented townhome at $2,100 a month. Once the lockdown lifted she took advantage of the 30 year <3% mortgage loan rates and just bought a home for $383,000. Her payment is $2,200 which includes tax/insurance/PMI. Nearly equal to what she was paying in rent. But it also tracks fairly close with my converted 1995 era monthly house payment amount of $1,996. Even her salary tracks closely to my 1995 to 2020 dollar converted engineer salary. 

Yes, one can say that I benefited from a slight era advantage in housing of around $200 a month. And that doesn’t include any of her cost to handle any repairs. Hardly enough to support the it was easier then than now anti-FIRE mindset trap unless we go down the higher loan payoff numbers. But what I see is that in this era, my daughter hopefully has an appreciating asset for about what she paid in rent. With keeping nearly the same monthly housing cost she also has the opportunity to continue saving and investing for the future.

This Era’s Advantages – Now vs Then

All I wanted to do when I started what turned into a 31 year telecom career was to get a job as a technician working alone high up on telephone poles. It never happened, I still ended up a tech but on the software side of things. I started as an entry level service representative answering phones and before I knew it, as opportunities for advancement opened up, I realized the importance of a 30 year pension and retirement health benefits. A definite benefit of the era I was in. But even a lot of that disappeared because I was on the tail end of that era. It became more and more age and service restricted with every executive change. What was first promised and a key point for sticking it out was diminished over the years. The rules and reasons for decisions changed.

Those who started in the era just before me had all the guarantees and protections. I did think that they caught all the breaks but didn’t let it hold me back. It required adjusting my plans within the confines of what my era provided and do what I could to meet my financial goals. I see many opportunities in this current era, not less. But they are only opportunities if taken.

Disappearing Retirement Benefits- Healthcare

The hardest thing I ever did in my life was force myself to stay at my company over 3 decades just to get promised retirement benefits. I put up with a lot to keep going after so many years invested. Later when new hires were paid more than us we were constantly reminded that our pay was lower because of that benefit. In the end they either diminished or they ended them. It was definitely a golden handcuffs situation and the company knew it. There was a lot of dirty corporate crap pulled on people of my era. 

I retired early at the age of 51 in 2009. I depended on getting retirement health insurance so that I could finally do my thing. There was no Obamacare-ACA then. Now one could carefully structure their retirement portfolio to produce income below the ACA income thresholds and get affordable health insurance. Seems like a benefit of this “now” era as long as ACA supporting people continue to get voted into office. I am still allowed to buy into my ex-employer’s health plan. For the year 2020 retirement health benefit I pay $1,334 a month.  

The all and powerful Internet

In 1995 as I reported to work at my relocation work cubicle I saw what was to be the internet for the first time. But it was the Intranet then. All within our own servers. Even if you wanted to go outside into the big www world there was mostly only porn. 1995 was a time when it was the only business model making money with it. Although one could access the internet from home, 1995 was still a slow going dial-up modem era with limited content available.

Centralization and relocation is far more limited now with the internet.

Sure, corporate headquarters will still move and force employee relocation. But I know that my job could have been done remotely. Some of my peers were even allowed to remote report before I retired and most do today within that same organization. Even if stung with the same relocation circumstances today, the internet would make finding a new job easier if I had decided to stay put. Our house search was a pain without the internet as we know it now. Finding a Job, house, research, you name it, all relied on getting hard copy paper by newspaper, a book, or sent materials. More information and data means being able to make better decisions.

The internet era has also provided the ability to invest without having a huge portfolio with a broker.

In 1995 we were only a couple of years into 401K investment options beyond the limited investment choices of cash or our employer’s company stock. For most of my working era it was a single 401K savings choice. There are so many investment opportunities from research to actually investing available today.

Education is expensive

I grew up low-income. Without a scholarship I was unable to afford college after high school. As soon as I turned 18 I had to start paying rent. Even if qualified, my parents wouldn’t consider cosigning on a student loan. I was a high school honor student and college was just financially out of reach. I worked and used work related tuition aid to attend night classes when I could. All course studies had to be aligned with my employer’s work related qualifications. 

Many people of today’s era start out in the hole.

They go right from high school to University degree programs. Then student debt rides their backs for decades if not managed or never attaining a suitable salary to manage it. I’m sure this is where a lot of the anti-FIRE mindset trap of “it’s harder now” comes from. Student debt is a real problem of this era. But it’s even more a problem for people with huge student debt and a degree that doesn’t offer a higher paying career worthy of it. 

In my era I ran into the same high education costs dilemma although I know they were smaller numbers. I haven’t any cost examples because I could never afford to pull that trigger without incurring heavy debt. Debt during a high interest rate era wasn’t something I could do. I also had little time to commit to it. Once we started having kids, the era shared condition of childcare costs made it cost prohibitive for my wife to work. I worked 2 jobs which lasted 13 years. For me, my era and socioeconomic status only offered the slow slog of work gained experience, university night classes when I could, and correspondence courses.

Every Era Has Its Benefits and Challenges

It doesn’t matter what era we are in, FIRE is not going to be easy. One era isn’t necessarily easier, they’re different. I’m sure nothing I detail here will change many folk’s minds regarding whether it was easier then vs. now to reach FIRE. Especially anyone going through job loss, severely high student debt, or lives in an expensive region of the world. Every life’s era has its periods of uncertainty and the impacts of decisions we made earlier. What matters is what we do about it. I read something in the book The Wealthy Gardener that stuck with me- You either change what you are doing or accept what you have. 

Being able to reach a chosen level of financial independence is and has been hard during any era. That’s why so few get there automatically. It takes concentrated effort. Ditch thinking that other people’s FIRE success stories are outdated era handed lucky paths to financial freedom. They are valid examples of strategies that worked for them. Their stories were never intended to be a solution but to generate FIRE ideas that will work for you in this current era within your unique situation.